Woman lifts lid on romps with married men – and says it's better than settling down
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Woman lifts lid on romps with married men – and says it’s better than settling down


A woman has spilled the beans on her relationships with married men after admitting she likes the thrill of being with someone’s dirty secret.

Emma, who is in her 40s, is a member of Ashley Madison, an online dating service for people who are married or in relationships.

The American said almost all of the men she’s met on the site are older – which is what she prefers anyway.

Now speaking to Daily Star Online, Emma has dished the dirt on relationships and sex with married men.

She said: “I date married men because I don’t want a full-time relationship. I like my independence, but I still want to have sex.

“Being the side gig allows the thrill of being someone’s dirty secret – I like the excitement. Almost all of the men I’ve met on Ashley Madison are older. I prefer older.

“Some men I’ve only seen once and some I’ve been seeing for years. It depends on the situation, how I feel about them and how they are towards me.”

Emma says she often sees her dates in Starbucks – which she describes as a meeting point for married people having affairs.

She added: “I like to have coffee first. Once a relationship has been established, we meet at their place or a hotel. I like to get to know them before meeting privately.”

Fortunately for the serial dater, Emma has never been found out – although she’s had a couple near misses.

She said she loves the thrill of dating married men

Although marriage isn’t on the cards for her, she would be heartbroken to find her partner had been cheating.

She explained: “I’ve never cheated on my partners. If I do marry and found my spouse to be cheating it would absolutely hurt my heart. I don’t know if I would stay married.

“I know that’s totally hypocritical but it’s how I feel about it. Men cheat because they want sex, I find older men who have affairs to do it because their partner has cut them off.

“They want sex. Younger men who cheat are after something different. Or kinkier. They can’t get their wife to do a certain sex act and they want it.

“None of the men I’ve met want to fall in love. They want sex. I’ve never wanted any relationship to become official. I’m not looking for a boyfriend or husband.”





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